Secrets to Long Lasting Relationships


“There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment. “

Sarah Dessen, The Truth About Forever
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Most people say that being in love is the best feeling in the world. You got to spend time with the person who keeps you happy, you got the feeling of being secured and accepted and you even got to feel all the butterflies in your stomach.

Love is magical. It makes you do any thing for a person you treasure. There is always light in the darkness, you can imagine even the unimaginable things, and promise to get even the moon and the stars.

If you have read my post entitled “Let’s know more about the writer”, you probably know that I have been in a relationship for almost 9 years now. Yes, 9 years, believe it or not, I have been with a guy I met 9 years ago.

Most of my friends or even those whom I just met always asked the secrets to last lasting relationship. I tend to answer all questions from time to time. This is why I have decided to share those in this blog post of mine.

If you are interested to know, keep on reading this article. 🙂

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  • Build the trust.

This is one of the most important things one should know in getting into a relationship. You need to build this and never ever ruin. Make your partner feel that you believe him and you are always at his side. This is one of the foundation of a long lasting relationship, the thing that keeps both of you going. If you trust the person you love, he will feel all the security and freedom.

  • Put your partner on your priority list.

Every person wants to feel being the priority. In a relationship, it is best to let your partner feel that you are prioritizing him. Accompany him anywhere he wants to go, spend time with him, go on trips with him, and never ever forget to send even simple chats and messages. Believe me, your presence would really mean a lot.

  • Give each other the chance to make a decision.

In a relationship, you should treat each other as “equals”. Before looking and delving into something, always ask for his suggestions or thoughts. Remember, you don’t need to always get his approval, you just need to let him know what you are into.

  • Let your partner go out with friends.

I don’t know what is wrong with a person who never lets his partner to go out with friends. Remember, the world does not spin just for the two of you only. You both need to have friends you can mingle with. It would be boring if you would spend all your time together.

  • Date your partner.

Most couples tend to forget to go on dates after being together for several years or after getting married. This is a big “don’t”. Know that you still need to spend some time together though you are both busy on your own businesses (be it work, school, or anything). An hour or two at a cafe or restaurant would do.

  • “How was your day?”

Do not forget as well to ask him about how his day went. There is this happiness being felt every time someone asked what you have been to. Listen to your partner and give some time even for short conversations.

  • Gifts do not matter that much.

When you are in love, material things do not matter that much. It would be great if both of you have this futuristic mind. Thinking about your future and preparing for it as well is of course better than flowers, gifts, and chocolates.

  • Do not forget your anniversary date.

Of course, this one’s important as well. Taking note of your Anniversary date is a must. As I have mentioned above, there is no need for fancy gifts — greeting your partner just in time would make him feel all the love.

  • Visualize the future with him.

When entering into a relationship, always think that you’ll both end up being together. Relationships are not experiments that you’ll finish after just a couple of weeks or months.

  • Put God in the center of your relationship.

This is of course the most important tip you should keep. If you both trust God’s plan, you are in the right way. If you got issues and problems, pray. If you are both happy, pray. Attend masses together and keep God as your relationship’s foundation. Remember, you can overcome everything with him.

Hope you got something from this article.

Do you have any thoughts? Leave your comments below! I would love to read those. 🙂

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4 comments on “Secrets to Long Lasting Relationships”

  1. ✨fab post sweetie💫Definitely need to make more time for dates my husband & I always talk about arranging one then before we know it weeks have gone by again~this has given me the inspo to cement some plans🙌🙏🏼💫💞✨

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